I DON’T UNDERSTAND PARENTS WHO LET THEIR KIDS “EXPRESS THEMSELVES” HOWEVER THEY WANT.

Parents who let their children express themselves understand that we grow up to be our own person. Simple as that. You can’t control them forever.

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Carolyn Millsop

Casual Senpai you are right, you can’t control them forever, BUT as long as they are under your roof, they have to learn there are rules that need to be followed.

At least , that’s the way it was when I grew up and when my children grew up. Just my opinion.

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Doran Theresa Pline

Casual Senpai as a parent, to a child, you set boundaries. As the child grows and matures the boundaries change.

If you want to express yourself take up art or music. Get into sports or drama. Once the child is on their own all you can do is watch…

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Sheila Marie Franks

Casual Senpai well I raise three children and I was fairly strict but when they got old enough to understand things better, I always told them I’m not always right you have an opinion and don’t be afraid to express it and they did that most of all I …

Samantha Ann

Casual Senpai all about one expressing themselves, but until your of age and paying your own way in life this would never happen under my roof.

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Loraine Mckoy

Casual Senpai I totally agree with you on that. Some of the Parents now a days being their friends instead theirs Parents. Remember the decision they made today affect them for the rest of their life.

Debbie Stewart-Keller

That is how leaders are born! Id rather hsve my kids expreexpress themselves and grandchildren. That whst music art and great leaders come from

Donna Skelton

Casual Senpai teaching this child of the value of good work ethic and a desire to get an education and a good job so she can take care of her own self is more important than being able to get tattoos and piercings. Most good jobs require you look decen…

Cj Cole

Children are not meant to be molded into versions of us. They are singular beings on their own who have the right to be themselves. I let my son get his ear pierced…. today he doesn’t because he decided he didn’t want it when he was older. He had h…

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Rita Boling

Casual Senpai you can control when they are young it’s parents jobs to steer them to do right things. Kids know what they are taught

Candy Tressler

Casual Senpai I don’t agree with the piercings on the face. But if they want tattoos I’m fine with it. As long as they pay for them. I have them. Having tattoos does not make you a bad person. Neither does different colored hair.

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Elizabeth Atkinson

Sounds like you’re more worried about putting on a good front at church and what people think than worshipping God! God wants us to love unconditionally. Sounds like you missed that memo!

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Pamela’s Pastime Creations

The Lord loves us with unconditional love

and that is how we should love others!

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Karen Ashley for Church Hill

It almost as if no young person is happy with themselves inside or out

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Erin O’brien-Ball

It could be so much worse. It’s better for her to have some freedoms to do what she wants with her looks. She’s beautiful. Who cares what you look like at church. What matters is what kind of heart you have.

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Conner Lilley

I think the neck tattoo is too far but everything else is reversible.

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Lynne Chambers

It’s not how I or my children were raised, but it is not to be ashamed of. And not go to church ? Why? Surely a true Christian would not judge or shun, if so, they need to rethink.

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Jayne Rosevear

Beautiful loving soul is what I see

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Vicki Hufstetler

I adore my beautiful, first born granddaughter. She’s a bright light in my heart and my life. (I dearly love my other grandchildren too) but, I think she and I bonded when she was only months old. And it’s still there!

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Dylan Jones

I’m fairly sure we are all made in God’s image. If we remembered that and qere more loving and less judgemental, the world would be a nicer place.

Kathy Saward

She looks. Fine pretty let her live her life least shes not fake with elephant lips

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Myrlande Pierre- Richardson

What’s worse is that we are not our own. We were all everyone purchased by the precious blood of Jesus His arm is always outstretched to receive the repentant ones we must repent and be broken and He’ll except us and forgive us.

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Lorraine Lefebvre Billson

I don’t care about church or her hair, it will grow out. Piercings and tattoos are a no go for me.

I always told my kids that until they were independently wealthy and NEVER had to apply for a job tattoos and piercings were absolutely no, at least unti…

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Bessie and Me: Shifting Gears

If you avoid church because of ‘what people think’ you are in the wrong church

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Tracy L Rue

You’re not supposed to understand or agree with it – you old! Haha (me too) most of the time it’s a phase. Take her to church, be proud of her, pump her up. Love her unconditionally

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Christine Baker Lmt

They would think that you love her unconditionally no matter what if you brought her to church like that. It is time for women to stop judging each other and support each other. Get with the times or lose the people who aren’t going to wait around for you.

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Lesley Scholey

What’s church got to do with how she expresses herself , I thought God loved every one of!!

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Zaak Khan

People are church should mind their own and treat her like a normal human that she is

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Bridget Jeske

She’s beautiful. In todays society, be happy that’s she comfortable in her own skin, and she’s HAPPY.

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Trudy Pratt

This generation is ALLOWING ANY AND EVERYTHING ACCEPTABLE!!! TAKE HER TO CHURCH REGARDLESS OF WHAT PEOPLE SAY , LOVE HER LIME CHIRSTIVES THE CHURCH AND WATCH YOUR GRANDDAUGHTER CHANGE!!!

SHE IS SEEKING LOVE AND ATTENTION

Amy Cousineau

She looks beautiful

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Tonya Jepson

Jesus said Let the children come unto me

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Anna Torres

They can express themselves when they are 18 or when they can afford to “express themselves” it’s absolutely ridiculous that parents are doing this.

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Marek Eliaš

That’s problem. Instead of giving love to grandchildren prefer opinion of others.

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Nida Garcia Bandoza Mangapit

She’s not looking happy, what’s her problem? Parents guide your kids asked them, our guidances always there for good to them, she’s pretty even like that.

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The $trange On3

If you can’t see how beautiful she is, that’s on you.

Nicole Persaud

Looks like you’re going to church but not allowing Jesus to work in you yet, keep going – I’ll pray for your ability to accept and love without conditions and to not be judgemental or anxious

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I’m NOT a tattoo or piercings guy, but have plenty of friends who are and they are salt of the Earth honest, hard-working, decent, some even religious people. “Don’t judge a book by it’s cover.”

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Sheila Pisani

Your Granddaughter is beautiful. Her eyes are so sad. I don’t know why you would even care what people think. Take her out for lunch please and find out why she is hurting. This baby girl needs love. What better than a Grandma to shower her with unc…

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Tinner Chai

Church is for everyone so if they can’t accept her then tough luck as I brought a friend of mine who looked like he was homeless but he wasn’t and had tattoos all over and piercing they didn’t say anything just welcomed him to the church

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The Bobby Allen Show

Don’t judge a book by its cover…she may be a Beautiful person…everyone deserves a chance.

Barbara Shaw

She is still your granddaughter no matter what ,she is beautiful too its a fashion the many grandparents will relate too, take her to church and be proud .

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Maryanne Christiano-Mistretta

Beautiful!

And to the Mom — Accept and understand your daughter. You’ll be gone a long time and she will resent your negative attitude towards her when you’re no longer with us — whether it’s a year from now or 40 years from now. Is that how you w…

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RainbowSims

It’s a picture taken by AI, look at the earrings and necklace.

Annmarie Calderone Jones

How old is she.

Mom Treading Water

So being concerned about what other people think is more important than letting her go to church? That seems like the opposite of what Jesus would preach.

Cynthia Payne Brantley

Sad that you and your church would turn away a child of God.

NinoPLAYsolo

There is no bad kids, only bad parents. Remember that!

DreVon Taylor

I have 4 kids of my own. They’re 1,000% free to express themselves however they want. Whatever makes them happy I’m all for it. But that doesn’t mean there aren’t any boundaries. If you’re doing what you need and have to do as a parent, don’t worry so …

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Tonya Jepson

I’ll bring her to church if you don’t. Send her to me

Loceenani Oncz

Not losing, but lost

Jennifer Manning Cinocco

Beautiful child so Idk but I would say it’s you that is the issue here. I let my kids explore and express themselves and I have two very responsible and respectful adult kids now. Suppression breeds obsession not obedience.

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90 Day Sherry

Um no if under 18 just no.

LeeAnn Bucklin Alford

I think she’s beautiful. Be proud that she would want to go to church with you. Stop judging the cover of the book!

Love her for who she is on the inside. She’s clean and well put together. Just a touch of mascara and lip gloss. Be proud of her! …

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Day Herman

As long as she is kind an caring it doesn’t matter what she looks like. She is beautiful. My granddaughter has tattoos and piercings and I love her because of her kindness and caring.

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Ramona Garvin Marsh

I can’t understand worrying about what “church people” would think. They are taught not to judge, right?

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Angela Taylor Bacon

Well honestly u should still take her to church with u! That’s God’s house! It’s not up to us to change ppl it’s God’s place to do that jus like it’s not r place to be judgmental! It doesn’t matter what ppl think as long as u take her to church, everyt…

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Gaudy Valdez

If she is a good kid and likes to go with you anywhere take her she loves you anyway

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Grace Silva

Very Beautiful and Sweet

You are hurting Her more than anyone else as a good Grandma would helper to go true Her teenage years and helper , because She is looking very sad

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Marie Newman

I think she’s beautiful

Ramona Lopez Nunez

It’s too bad because she’s so beautiful

Michelle Hardy

She looks beautiful x

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Jan Star-Pearson Moore

She really needs to be in church

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Renee Young

Hair coloring, piercings and tattoos are indeed personal choices, but I don’t think the question is who cares what people think. I think the question is where are the boundaries? Is everything OK these days? Are there no rules? Because if there are no…

She’s All That & More

Please don’t keep your granddaughter from attending church with you. Jesus loves all his children regardless of hair color, clothes, piercings and tattoos. Did you ever watch the movie Sister Act? I loved how the music brought in all the street people …

Zouzo Khalifa

People think? Yeah don’t bring her to church to what would people think, as they will wrongly judge her like u did. Let her live in peace then. P.S although I don’t like it but she looks cute in it and I would support what makes her happy apart from what makes me happy.

Corinne Blaymires Nunn

She looks lovely.

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New Port Richey Main Street, Inc.

God just wants you to love her like He loves her and you! I hope you change your mind and bring her to church with you.

Adina L Conroy

Is that a permanent tattoo? On a minor? Ummm… no! The hair color can be easily changed. The piercings removed. I would be asking myself as a parent why my child feels the need to do this to fit in.

Brenda Miller

My question is why was the grandma raising the child? Why was she with her long enough to let her do all the things she did to herself?? Where was mom when all of this happened ??

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Arlene Bonner Jimison

I understand and I am not judging you as a Mother. It’s just the age we were brought up in. Decency had took on a whole new look. I don’t get it myself. I think she would be beautiful without all of the piercings and yellow hair, but to express their s…

Kelly Jadryev Nestorovich

She is beautiful even with bright yellow hair! Does she get good grades, is she respectful, does she use drugs? If the answers are yes, yes, no……then who cares! Let her be her! And if you care what others think, that’s part of the problem!

Kimberly Ann Smith-Olsen

If your church judges her you are at the wrong church.

Dannielle Brown

I’m a grandmother & get where you’re coming from… but also believe God loved & healed EVERYONE! So if u can’t bring ur granddaughter to church with you this is a very SAD day!!!!

Christine Radice

I completely agree with you. It looks awful!

Alivia Michelle Lopes

First of all, I don’t know what church you go to, but sounds like it’s not of God if you can’t bring your grand daughter there. What are teaching her by even saying that? I hope you’ll talk to Jesus about that. Your grand daughter is beautiful, NO MAT…

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Carol Wunderlich

I don’t know what Church you go to but I would never be embarrassed to take her! I don’t color my hair but I used to; not this color but other. I have piercings; they are in my ears but still are piercings and I have multiple tattoos! I think they’re b…

Carol Lucas Monroe

What are people at your church going to think? I would hope they would be very welcoming to her to the church and to God. It’s NOT our job to JUDGE anyone especially especially in CHURCH ! If you are a true CHRISTIAN

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Arise Church Community Dog Park

She could change her hair back tomorrow, and remove most of the piercings as well. There are more important aspects to parenting.

MVP Athletics

My motto is don’t sweat the small stuff…..this is all small stuff

Is she a good person?

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Antonette Imburgia

I think what stands out to me is your granddaughter’s beautiful eyes. From those eyes can come much love. Bring her to church. Share all the love she must have inside her with many people. You’d be surprised how many friends would like and accept her. …

Robin Mills

Why can’t you bring her to church? You already raised your child.Love love love your Grand daughter.Enjoy her pray for her listen to her dreams.

Anna Cruz

She is beautiful don’t stop making memories with your love ones just because of the color of her hair and of thing’s you mentioned. You never know how much time on this earth you have together. I made memories with my son up until he passed away 2 years ago

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Ann Williams

A shame. What kind of grandmother are you.. my children and grand are different.

BUT I WOULD TAKE THEM ANY WHERE.. GRANDMOTHER YOUR THE PROBLEM.. SHAME ON YOU. EXCEPT THEM.

Jolene Millard

It takes a lot of courage to express yourself. She’s a beautiful young lady. Who are you to judge? Just as the Pharisees.. unbelievable, casting stones . Best thing for me to do, is to stop following the site. Your judgmental statements bring you likes…

Katie Morgan

First off so what if u get dirty looks at church are we not told to be open minded ? Just try it take her to church and be proud that you did , be proud of her and love her for who she is not what society thinks she should be

Judy Knapp

My first question is she disrespectful? She’s still the same sweet granddaughter? Love her for who she is! Not what she looks like. She still has the same heart. Stop being judgmental! Love that child take her to church never forget God loves All! Bett…

Cotton Family Reunion

Take her to church, don’t be ashamed of her. She’s a beautiful child of God, she needs to learn about Him. Kids are kids, they need Jesus more than ever in these days. Show love to her, no matter what.

Cindy Abbay-Lugo

It’s sad you feel your granddaughter is a delinquent. And if it’s about taking her to church God loves everyone no matter the

Look, color, size and gender. I would think if you thought it was important for her to go to church then you would want to tak…

Karen Millman-Antonietti

She is adorable!! Maybe as she gets older she will see how beautiful she is and can be. Hope these tatts can be removed or covered up when she finds her worth. Meanwhile support her as a growing teen and pray of course.

Tina Marie Evans

I understand you. It tears my heart at some things my daighters has done in a permanent way to herself. She so beautiful but and don’t need it. I’m afraid one day she will regret most. How she raises her kids is not exactly how I would or did raise her…

Laurie N John Caldwell

You have a beautiful granddaughter. Enjoy her independence, and if people at my church were judges then would they really be a Christian?

Winnie Andrews

That should not keep you from taking her to church. Church is exactly where she needs to be. If she were standing before God right now he would not turn her away. If people at church judge her then they are the ones who needs to get right with God. God…

Kim Ennis

She is absolutely Beautiful, she is who she is and you as A/HER grandmother should LOVE HER UNCONDITIONALY, maybe put a few yellow streaks in your hair

Joyce Christian

I think she is beautiful. What a stuffy and boring world this would be if people did not express themselves. It’s such a free feeling. She’s not hurting herself or anyone. Would you prefer for her to hate herself because she doesn’t feel pretty enough…

Brenda Smith

She is Gorgeous. I wonder what she sees in what she makes her self up like this.

Love her the way she is. Hopefully it is a phase she is going through. I would still take her to church if she is willing. Just keep loving her.

Lillian Siber Gifford

Wow! I think she looks absolutely beautiful! I would be proud to take her anywhere with me and if people didn’t like it, they can go fly a kite!! I wound stop going to any church that doesn’t show the love of God to everyone!!

Jana Swett Guy

My daughter had ear piercings, then she pierced her nose, but her tattoos were later when she was 18. If they are old enough to make their own decision and pay for it, let it be. It’s not about the tattoos, but who she is and how she treats people. …

Melissa Noell

You have to let your child be themselves. Its not a different style of parenting it called being a parent. We let our daughter change her hair clolor she has a lip piercing. He let her be herself just the same as our son.

Vanessa Roque

Your granddaughters individuality is what makes her, her

She’s unique. If she doesn’t care what other people think of her, neither should you. Also if someone were to judge they probably already have because of her tattoos and piercings but that didn’t stop her.

Amanda Rhonda Watson

It’s called expressing yourself. I dye my hair crazy colours and I’m 35. Personally I think she looks awesome. And your ashamed to take her to church. I hope she doesn’t see this and you tell your church friends for f off x

Ink By Hand 2024

Be proud of her I think she looks great. Nothing wrong with expressing yoursel, from this 65 year old fogey!!!!

Dena Wooten Lindsey

My daughter did the same thing I can’t tell you the colors of hair she had. Yes she has piercings and many tattoos. She likes the art of her tattoos. I had a long talk with her that one day she might regret them. She is intelligent bright and squared a…

Laura McCauliff

It’s just you! I have always taught my children to be themselves and they have passed that along to my grandchildren. How many children suffer depression hiding who they really are, then taking their own lives? Let kids be themselves, hair dye really…

Lori Wurm Weitzmann

She is absolutely beautiful!! I applaud your daughter for supporting her daughter in expressing herself in a way that makes her comfortable. Again, she’s beautiful!!

Patty Phillips

You need take her to church–how she looks doesn’t mean she isn’t good enough to go to church. God loves her and wants her in church as much as you. She might find the guidance she needs in church.

Nancy Benner

Your granddaughter is beautiful. You can see her good soul in her eyes. You should love her unconditionally! Why be embarrassed to take her to church? She is still your granddaughter and you should not be embarrassed. Jesus still loves her!

Classic Horror

She’s a beautiful young lady. It’s just crazy how these kids think that adding that stuff to themselves makes them prettier. If they only knew that the woman’s body was so beautiful without anything else.

Deborah Woodard

but true beauty is in the inside—-not the outside…it’s unfortunate that this grandmother is judging her granddaughter based on how she looks

and personally when I first saw this picture I said to myself she looks like a Ra…

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Carlene Amaro

I think she looks beautiful! If it’s TRULY a Christian church, no one should be judging her. If it’s one of those “We get to tell everyone else how to live” so-called “Christian” churches, well, start learning how to love and accept others

Nancy Lehnen Fiasco

Youre one sick Grandma. You can’t bring her to church?? What would people think?? This is a time to spend with her. The directions kids go these days could be altered by having Grandparents. And your worried about what others might think or say. I hope…

Sandee Rapp

But how is her heart? Is she kind? Is she loving?

Heather Deida

I think you’re daughter sounds like an AMAZING mother despite being raised by YOU!! A JUDGEMENTAL person!! Yes, you CAN bring her to church IF SHE WANTS to go!! God loves ALL his children

Kathy Cady

She is beautiful! I don’t understand what you think is undecent about your granddaughter she’s beautiful and trying to express herself. Or maybe it’s a cry for help maybe she needs the extra attention so it’s the only way she knows how to do it. You sh…

Angela Phelps

Maybe if granny had accepted her for who she was without being “embarrassed” in the first place she would have wanted to go to church with her. If granny is that judgemental then it’s not the appearance that is keeping the young lady from church. Beaut…

Janet Mcgourty

What? Take her to church! First of all she is a beautiful healthy girl and church is a place that should heal our soul not a place to be judged ( you could be in the wrong church if you feel this way). All should be welcome in church. If she thinks sh…

Wendy Culpepper

She looks cute, that color blonde makes her features stand out. Let her be herself and love her unconditionally. Why set the example of trying to change who she is so other people will accept her. You can’t please everybody so why put yourself or her thru that anyway.

Jeannie Alexander

I don’t understand how colored hair, piercings and tattoos have to do with whether or not you’re a decent person. From my experience, it’s the “church” people who lack decency. You’re SUPPOSED to go to church to worship not to judge others and gossip. …

Dena McFarland Wagner

You can’t even take her to church? God wants you to come to church as you are. If your church judges on looks or clothes then you need a new church. She is a beautiful young lady but I am seeing pain in her eyes, don’t create more.

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Dindy Dunthorn McDaniel

I think she is beautiful the way she is. What happened to not judging. It is not for us to say what is right or wrong and this is just physical. What happens if it is mental you are all failing in allowing others to be who they are let God do his job you do your.

Mia Jurjevic

Beautiful girl, I love her hair and sparkly eyes! Cultivate a positive relationship with your daughter and granddaughter instead of wasting your time on criticism. She can go to church anytime if she wants to, we are all equal under the sky and God don…

Cathy Limongelli Gilliam

It’s actually very commonplace, if you are worried about being seen with your own granddaughter at church…take a good look around at the girls/boys who are her age, and I’m sure you will see similar looks on them, js. And wasn’t it Jesus who taught us …

Piper Close

Well to throw church in there. Makes me respond.

It takes all kinds to make the world go round. You must not trust in WHO YOU ARE. To feel uncomfortable, with your grand baby; (Over the judgment of YOUR church). Jesus loves everyone. All kind…

Diana Manning Carroll

So I would still take her to church. She is not embarrassing you she’s just doing what is allowed. BUT as a parent I allowed some freedom of expression but not all. Pick your battles wisely! Hair can be changed. Piercings and tattoos in certain pl…

Dawn Simon

I’d much rather , let her express herself. She could be worse off if she was dead of an overdose like my neighbors daughter at 19. So dying her hair and piercings. Are very welcome in my house!!!

Karen Strahm Daniels

Be that grandparent that loves unconditionally. They are teens.. they need to know they are loved!

Rochelle Lopez

I think she is beautiful!! The Bible says come as you are! I’d be nothing but happy to bring her to church with me and embarrassed should not be a word in your vocabulary towards your own flesh and blood granddaughter smh!!!

Yolanda Ash-Watkins

Please don’t stop asking to take her to church.. That could very well be her wake up call to do away with the piercing and not get another tattoo.. The hair looks great with her eyes.. The love from you will definitely be a plus for your grand daughter…

Piper Close

Why does there have to be something wrong with someone because they have tattoos and piercing m. not everybody gets tattoos and piercings because they’re in pain, that someone was mean to them. some people like the art of it. It is an art you know pe…

Linda Porter Melchor

Why do you care what people think ? I have blonde hair, no tattoos and pierced ears and I would be proud to have her as my grand daughter….

Cheryl Golushka

What kind of Church do you go to that you can’t bring her there for fear of being embarrassed? It doesn’t matter what she looks like on the outside what matters is her heart and soul!!!!!

Mary Napier Kiefer-Waxler

Her hair, her tattoo, her piercings are just her look just like what shirt or dress she wears. And why are you embarrassed, she’s your grand daughter. The important thing is that she goes to church.

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Olenma Figueroa Alvarez

If your biggest issue is “what other people think,” you don’t respect your daughter or grandchild enough. Do I agree with all the “free spirited parenting,” no, but to not take my granddaughter somewhere because of how she looks???????

Evelyn Howland-Jensen

I wonder if Mon of Dad had tattoos or any piercings..

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Carolee Moye Duffey

Everyone else has the same in grandchildren. It’s a new generation but you need to act like Jesus did and love your granddaughter a little more. Do you sit n talk with her? Do you know your real granddaughter under all of the mess she’s done to her lo…

Gena Sanders

She’s beautiful! The yellow looks so good on her with her eye color. Just bc I know it wouldn’t look good on me, doesn’t mean it doesn’t look good on that person. Tats are so cool and very expressive. I have several myself. Anyway, she’s beautiful!

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Barbara Coleman

I think she’s beautiful. God knew her long before you did. I you believe in God… you’ll know the color of her hair doesn’t matter.

Judy Evans

Keep taking her to church. If your church is a bible believing church and preaches Gods word, God can changer her heart. The piercings can be removed and hair colors change all the time. But Jesus can convict her of that. It’s what’s instilled in her h…

Martha Cosper

You’re a little granddaughter is trying to find herself she looks traveled to me there’s more than tattoos and dyed hair to look at be proud take her to church. Let her know she’s excepted.

Rene Arrazola

Oh my goodness don’t judge her . She’s beautiful, God lives her and wants her to go with you. She needs the Lord just as much as we do. That’s your job is to bring loved ones to Christ . Then let him work on her . It will be just fine . She’ll grow u…

Raven Johnson

She has done nothing to herself that cannot be undone. As she grows older she will know that you accepted her and loved her and more than likely she will morph into the beautiful young lady she is. She is a beautiful woman and in her mind she has made …

Lynette F Davies

Take her to church. Be proud of her. Let her form a relationship with God. I know you don’t care for her tattoos and piercings, but inside, she’s the same beautiful person.

Ann Davis

The tattoos are a lil too much at such a young age. But I’m surprised with you steady being a mother. People (our children) are people. Individuals. I always let my daughter express her self. Age appropriate though. That’s just me as a mom!

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Arlene Bonner Jimison

She’s a beautiful young lady. She didn’t need all of that to make herself beautiful. She has an inferiority complex like most of the young men and women of today. The fit in or be outcasted complex that is. No one should have to conform to other people…

Andrea Moore

If that were my grandchild I would take her to church with me with my head held high. Dare anyone to judge my precious grandchild. She will make many more decisions in her life that can be far worse than this. We live in an evil world. Pray for her…

Angelique Marie Haney

having yellow hair,piercings & tattoos doesn’t make her a disgrace,& she’s beautiful!!! good god people,if that’s the worst she’s done then let her be who she wants to be. i’m a mother of 4 amazing kids & i believe in letting them express themselves ho…

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Renee Ricketts

She is beautiful. I would take her to church or any where else she would want to go with her grandma. And you seem to be just what makes people not want to worship. Can’t believe you would rather judge her than to love her. That’s sad. You should maybe…

Katy Saylor

Well she is beautiful even with all the piercings and yellow hair. Embrace her beauty on the inside before judging her outside. Maybe you should be glad she didn’t tattoo trump on her forehead…..

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Mary Briggs

Grandma, why don’t you just love your granddaughter and accept her choices? My son , as a high schooler, dressed all in black, painted his nails black, had his hair dyed black and got his 1st tattoo. He has grown up to be one of the most artistic, ge…

Kristie Tomlin Rana

It is very very sad that this person feels that they can no longer take her to church because her hair is bright yellow, and she has piercings! How ironic to speak as you do.

and to be so worried about what other people and what they think. If a plac…

Leslie Spencer

If you brought her to church with you it would show that you have unconditional love for her. Which obviously you don’t. Very sad

Darlene Root

It’s a new generation. Self expression. Honestly, she is still beautiful. As long as she likes what she sees, that’s what matters, that and the person she is inside the wrapper!

MA Rodriguez

Such a beautiful young lady, keep praying and never give up. She’s probably trying to find her identity and is using the wrong tools and parents can’t see that. Time will come when she realizes she was wrong. Keep praying, is never to late to show her the way.

Tonya Canterbury

I taught my daughter to hold her head up high. And have self respect for herself and others around her. Also what she does to her self reflects, not who she is but what others may think. We don’t care what others think either but I’ve taught her to h…

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Alicia Sosa

It’s just another generation, it’s not the loss of decency. What it’s important it what your granddaughter have in her heart. We just have to accept people they they like to be happy, it’s nothing wrong with that. She going to school, she works, she is…

Ana Letuligasenoa

What matters is in her heart. She looks beautiful I’ll still take my grandchild to church if she wants to come with me. Heavenly Father and our Savior Jesus Christ loves everyone. We go to church to change the way we see the world and learn of their lo…

Amber Gearhart

She’s beautiful who cares what others think god loves you and he loves her too bring her to church

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Lynne Macedo

I am 72 years old. I have my ears pierced and that is all. No tattoos. I think she looks beautiful. Why do you care what others think. She is a beautiful girl expressing her individuality. Tell her she is gorgeous and forget about what others think. S…

Pat Raley

The hair is pretty much OK but if it were my young child she would not have all those piercing all over her face the ear piercing is ok but the rest I would definitely have to say no. And that’s just me.you can handle yours however you choose.

Pamela May

The main thing is, is she embarrassed being seen with you? I bet she is a lovely girl

Sheila Richerson

Never stop taking her to church. Jesus loves us all, one as much as the other. We can’t discriminate because of how one looks. She and you could be missing out on a blessing.

Cathryn Goodman

Bè proud and stand tall your Granddaughter is beautiful..

Be thankful that she wants to be in church with someone as judgemental as you are …isn’t that in itself against the lords ways…judge Not says our lord God

Deborah Lewis Thompson

One day she will look back and say what was I thinking?

Don’t we all. Just too much out there and the expressing is more obvious.

Remember when everywhere you went you saw goth?

Allyson Jones Arata

I agree that all this self expression is a little much at times but please take her to church with you. God does not care at all what she looks like.

Karen Renee Kimbro

PRAISE GOD, FOR HER.

No matter what you love her the way Jesus loves you.

He wants her in church so he can get the word to her. You want convince her but Jesus can.…

Tracy Boudreau-Slater

If you’d have left out the “being embarrassed to bring her to church” part, I think most people would agree with you. The hair doesn’t matter because it’ll grow out. Allowing your children to get tattoos at this age is absolutely insane. That’s a perma…

Robyn Lynn Canessa

First off you very beautiful sweetie to the grandmother you or your church won’t except her in her beauty yall need to find another place to praise God and worship. Sweetie don’t let people judge you including your family you are beautiful inside and out

Charlotte Johnson

She is a beautiful girl.

Just hope she can find a good job when she becomes an Adult or be an entrepreneur and work for herself. …

Alli Givens

Well if you go to church and you are so judgemental, maybe should rethink your religion or listen more. This girl is absolutely beautiful and if thats what she wants, that’s ok. I would rather her express herself then be out doing drugs. She proba…

Donna Wright

I am so sorry Gramdma. I think she looks Beautiful. If she is happy and goes to school and gets good grades finishes school. I am proud of her. Let her be who she wants to be. I have seen plenty of grandma’s in my area with purple

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Peggy Shearon Stanley

Take her to church and tell her how proud you are of her and how much God loves her. She’s beautiful!!

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Angela Dillon

Is it that a child is really expressing themselves or being bullied to fit in? Kids have enough trouble growing up without certain crap being pushed on them.. show as much love as you do discipline.. be there for them .. communication is key.. they sho…

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Rhonda Gallagher

She is beautiful, even with piercings & tattoos. All that matters is what you think. You need an attitude adjustment.

Rose Helene

I know its hard to see the decisions they make. I remember . Your granddaughter has to live with the permanency of her tattoos. A sad reality some regret. Maybe when she is older she will care, maybe not for a while. The sad part is most of the time th…

Uncle Matt

She looks good, bring her to me,I want to marry her immediately.

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Marlene Miskelly White

She is a beautiful girl. I wonder if mom has actually talked to her about her choices. I believe it’s a stage of her trying to figure out who she is. Just give her some guidelines and let her be her. They’re grown up gone from us too soon. Enjoy her while you can.

I DON’T UNDERSTAND PARENTS WHO LET THEIR KIDS “EXPRESS THEMSELVES” HOWEVER THEY WANT.

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